In the past month I have seen more
of my prefecture Vo (comparable to a county) than I ever thought I would, and
all of it was from the back of my counterpart’s motorcycle. From our journeys I am convinced my
counterpart, Fogan, knows everyone in the prefecture or possibly just that he really
really likes to wave and honk his horn. I have seen Vo’s phosphate mines and fields of
manioc, napped under the trees, and stumbled off the moto with stiff legs, but
most of all I have been able to speak with rural villages all over the
prefecture about family planning.
In my work here in Vogan I have
been so lucky as to pair up with a local NGO—ASFECDI—that works with health and
women’s rights. Much of their work is
with sixty-one different farming cooperative groups (groupements) around the
prefecture of Vo; promoting women’s leadership and helping to connect these
rural agriculture groups to sources of micro financing. For the past month ASFECDI has assisted me in
working with these rural groups in another way—through educating about family planning—an
endeavor the NGO hopes to continue after I leave.
For those of you a little rusty on
what family planning is: Family planning is making the active decision of how
many children you want and when you want them.
Along with Fogan and two women
from the NGO, Felicity and Delfine, I have visited about four to six
groupements every week to explain the advantages of family planning and the
planning methods available in Togo. We
tag-team answering questions and getting the group involved with a small
sketch, and of course my three Togolese coworkers serve as my translators for
local language.
Having a large number of children
is ingrained in much of the culture and expectations of Togolese, but the
importance of spacing births is an idea that is easily grasped once it has been
suggested. Many people are eager to
share their experiences with having too many children and their own bits of
wisdom about the importance of family planning.
There are of course concerns about family planning and we receive many
questions.
Most questions pertain to rumors
and side effects of using hormonal contraceptives and other concerns about
effects of future children and fertility, but there are also some questions
that are a bit different. The rumors
people hear about using contraception can be amazingly bizarre and once they
become comfortable people ask questions very freely. I have been asked by one
man about his wife becoming a loose woman once she can have sex without the
fear of having children, who would pay for the parents’ funerals if there were
only a few children, having a child born with an IUD in its head if the mother
uses that method, and whether or not I personally enjoy sex with a condom.
After our work is done each
groupement insists on giving us a meal or drink as a thank you for giving our
time. After a long day I have been
stuffed with food I can’t refuse, though at least it keeps me from having to
cook that day Thanks to another day of
groupements that fabricate sodebe (the local hard liquor) I have returned home
from work hung over for the first time in my life, granted with the heat it is
very easy to become hung over. All day
long I was offered shots of liquor and to refuse would have been very impolite.
Thankfully, I wasn’t the one driving!
Having closely spaced births is a
problem that is very common in Togo. Without
knowing how or why to space births many Togolese, particularly many of the
rural subsistence farmers, suffer a huge burden by having more children than
they can fully support. Not using family
planning can have a significant negative impact, not only on the family itself,
but on society. Family planning is one
of those things that if used can make other behavior and development changes
easier to accomplish. Many of the
Togolese I have spoken with recognize the problem and I hope will begin using
family planning or talking about it with their children and peers.
You may have notice that family
planning and access to contraception has been a hot topic in the U.S. the past
few months. I don’t want to get
political, but I just want to let it be known that according to Togolese law
all women are guaranteed access to contraception and family planning
tools. It is true that in practice this
may not always be the case… but seriously, come on U.S.